Online Dating Profile Photo
Did you try taking selfies or ask a friend to take pictures of you? You might have tried to hire a stranger with a camera from craigslist for your online dating profile photo (was it awkward?). Then you figured those pictures wouldn’t (or didn’t) work well on your dating profile.
People use pictures to filter out options quickly because reading the profile or message takes too much effort. People do the easy things first and check out your pictures before reading your message. If you look like a happy, interesting person, they are much more likely to actually read your stuff, and with a certain chance, you’ll get a reply.
Clothing catalog models would be popular on dating sites, but they would not get a good experience there. This is because the pictures do not connect to your life. The pictures should look authentic, comfortable, confident, and a little bit personal and interesting. The last part is where personality comes in. Your dating profile pictures should be your personality catalog, complete with paragraphs of your life story and witty picture captions to depict your vision.
There are numerous dating coaches offering advice about dating profile pictures, but the key element is summarized as personality and authenticity.
Modern marketing experts figured out a lot about human nature to elevate the corporate brand status and sell more stuff through e-commerce sites. The same human nature is at work on dating sites (In fact, I started applying marketing principles to private life when I signed up for Yahoo! Personals in 2000... since then the dating sites evolved and became a lot more like a marketing project). One reason why I shoot dating profile pictures (but not family portraits or other consumer portraits) is because everything comes naturally to my mind and I enjoy it.
I can't help but notice that many dating profile clients are very curious about other people I shoot. I've worked with a very wide range of people. Everyone shared one thing in common: they are determined to get results from their dating site experience. Age ranges from the 20s to 60s, with a very wide range of dating experience level. Many work for a corporate job or own their business but realizing they are missing something.
Some people tell me they don't like having pictures taken; others blame their friends being bad "photographers." People also say "I never had pictures I liked." Some people admit they don't like the way they look but trying to do the best.
Many people ask for help in deciding what to wear because they are so used to wear a dark colored suit for work every day. Even if you are proud of your career, business suit probably does not represent the kind of life you want. Over-dressing or try to look glamourous may help you increase the number of messages you get, but the quality of the messages go down. Try to make casual outfits, like how you dress to hang out with friends or visit a museum. Do a little research by googling phrases like "fashion advice for men in their 30s" and find out what makes you feel excited.
My clients are mostly from eastern Massachusetts and New Hampshire, but many people make dating photo session a part of their trip to Boston for pleasure or business. But I've taken dating profile photo in clients' favorite cafes, parks, gardens and streets.
To learn about what kind of things I shoot, look at my bio page. If you like to learn more about how I work with clients, read what other people say about my headshots, personality and dating profile pictures.
How this works
Imagine going for a coffee or a walk with a friend, who happens to be a personality photographer. Usually, we like to start in the studio where we can take pictures in front of brick walls, a vintage door or windows. In the studio, you can review the images, so that you can adjust your expression. This way you get up to speed quickly. We could continue to shoot in the studio or walk over to a nearby park or a cafe. I’ll give some context and coaching, and it’ll be a casual, natural and relaxed session. You’ll forget about little issues and look natural in the picture.
After shooting, we review images and pick out good ones. A handful of good pictures will be corrected for color, exposure and I might add a subtle touch of creative effects to your taste. You’ll get JPEG files of the finished images.
The package includes all the essential features needed to go home with pictures you can upload right away: taking pictures, reviewing pictures with the photographer, where you see a few pictures are hand picked and enhanced. If you have any specific requests, the package can be customized and the price adjusted accordingly during a telephone consultation.
Price is determined by the duration of the session and location, but scenario above is 600. (If you need travel outside of Fort Point district, longer session, or otherwise extra work, the price will be adjusted.) Detailed skin retouching and special effects are optional at an additional cost, but retouching is usually not necessary for dating profile photo.
Many people need corporate LinkedIn style headshot in addition to personality portraits. Some people also need a bit more polished indoor portraits/headshots in addition to personality portraits. These popular combinations are priced lower than booking two separate sessions. (If you’re getting reimbursed for only a part of a combination package, we can break up the invoice.)
Booking requires a 50% advance payment to secure your appointment.
A friend of mine went to Ryuji to get photos for his online dating profile. He told me that after switching to Ryuji’s pictures, he started having a lot more success. Based on his recommendation, I went to Ryuji to get my own profile pictures. From his website to the preliminary phone discussion and on to the photo session itself, I was astounded by how much care and sophistication he brought to the entire process. He provides an incredible amount of information up front to help you prepare for the session and ensure that you get what you were hoping from the shoot. He’s an engaging and fascinating person to talk to as you work with him, which makes the session fly by, but looking back on it, I can see how his deep experience and professionalism went into making the session efficient, productive, and effective. – Evan Busch 6 Feb 2019
I don’t like taking pictures, unless Ryuji is behind the camera. I highly recommend him if you would like to have your photos taken and enjoy the process. He helped me tremendously to update my dating profile and bring new life to my LinkedIn. Thanks again Ryuji ! – Jonathan Epstein 24 Sep 2018
I hate having my picture taken. Every time I try to smile for the camera the resulting photo always comes out looking fake or stiff. My dating profile was full of selfies and badly taken photos with various cellphones. I was in desire need of some good pictures. Ryuji to the rescue. Besides being a talented photographer, Ryuji is amazing to work with. He has a way of putting you at ease while he shoots. The resulting photo’s come out looking vibrant and relaxed. Your personality shines through the photos. – Eric J. Pawtucket, RI, on 9/28/2016
I found Ryuji on his Beaupix website when I was looking for a photographer to take good photos of me for a dating website. Working with him was a delight. He has a great, dry sense of humor and is a fantastic photographer. He spent over 2 hours with me taking photos both in his studio and outdoors. I was nervous at first and uncomfortable in front of the camera but he worked with me so well and we got numerous shots that I was proud of, that showcased the “authentic” me. I have since used the photos both on Facebook and Linked in. Highly, highly recommended! – Leslie K. Marlborough, MA on 10/25/2015
I had an amazing experience getting pictures done for dating profiles. This is the first time that I’ve seen pictures of me that look the way I think I look. I’ve always hated looking at pictures of myself. they never seem to show what I see when I look in the mirror. I’m so excited to finally have photos of myself that look like me. I’ve had headshots done by professional photographers and still ended up disappointed. The process was seamless. Everything happened exactly the way Ryuji said it would from the initial inquiry to downloading my pictures. I cannot recommend Beaux Studio enough. – Deanna L. Dennis, MA on 30 Jul 2015
Eric W’s yelp review on 5/14/2014
I had never had professional headshots done before. Ryuji did an excellent job preparing, advising on wardrobe and guiding me through the process. I left with 30+ excellent professional and casual shots from several locations with 3 wardrobe changs. He carefully selected the best shots from hundreds. Very worthwhile experience. Excellent photographer. Easy manner that made me feel comfortable with the whole process. Highly recommended.
Andie N’s yelp review on 4/14/2014
Before going to Ryuji, the only professional photos I had featured me as a bridesmaid or maid of honor. I went to his studio with a desire for high quality multipurpose [read: dating] photos and a conviction that everyone deserves pro treatment. I was not disappointed. Being a nerd, I prepped with tons of google searches, everything I could find on Ryuji as well as how to prep for headshots. I went in with reasonable expectations and several choices of outfits. Ryuji put me at ease, making conversation and building rapport. He has a very disarming style, and that came in handy because I was somewhat nervous/unsure what to expect. We took some professional-type shots in his very industrial-chic studio and then went outside and around the neighborhood for more casual shots. I was worried the casual shots would look too composed, but he has a very smooth way of taking photos when you don’t even realize he’s taking photos, thus capturing really natural moments and expressions. It also helps that he’s fun to hang out with. He likes to talk about food and beer and movies, as well as whether or not you should stand that way or look over there. He takes the process very seriously, and he’ll explain anything you want him to explain. When we got back to the studio to look over the shots, he was patient and helped me make decisions. Above all I valued the transparency of the process; there was never a time I felt things were happening behind a curtain. Ryuji shows you results during the shoot so you have a sense of what you’re getting, and together you figure out which ones are truly keepers at the end of the day. Great experience.
A female client from Somerville, MA in spring of 2012
I recently had photos taken by Ryuji at Baupix Studio. It was a great experience and I would recommend him to anyone. I went in with the delicate task of getting a good shot for dating websites… I was pretty embarrassed. Ryuji made me feel very comfortable and he knew just what I was after – a shot that made me look my best but not too polished! He was also very patient while I went through the grueling exercise of choosing my favorite shot. Brilliant idea, why not put your best face out there!
Everything I read in the reviews was absolutely true. Ryuji is professional, interested and a master photographer. Not sure how easy it is to make a first time subject (me) relax and look good, but he pulled off the impossible. I was uncomfortable and embarrassed upon going, but I began to relax and actually enjoy myself (I got to play movie star for the day). We took great care choosing the photos I came home with, he was so patient as I hemmed and hawed about which I liked best. Then he touched them up perfectly – they look good, but not overly polished. It was such a nice afternoon, and I came home with some great shots. Thank you Ryuji!
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